Homework is a great tool to promote self-learning in students and give a boost to their class performance. However, too much homework can negatively impact the academic performance as well as physical and mental health of our kids.
A research published by the American Psychological Association suggested that more than 70 minutes of homework is too much for adolescents. Researchers from the University of Oviedo in Spain also observed that when students were assigned 90 to 100 minutes of homework per day, their Math and Science results started declining.
A 2015 study found that the elementary school students were getting nearly three times the homework than it is recommended. The National Education Association and the National Parent-Teacher Association recommends the ’10-minute’ rule for students which says:
10 minutes of Homework per grade level per night.
It means that if a child is in Grade 5, he or she should not have to do more than 50 minutes of homework every day.
Denise Pope, in his study published in the Journal of Experimental Education, found excessive homework was associated high academic stress and its physical impacts which included ulcers and other stomach problems, migraines, weight loss, sleep deprivation and exhaustion.
No wonder more and more students are seeking assignment help solutions online.
Here are some of the ways in which you can help your kids manage their homework as well as homework anxiety successfully:
DID YOU KNOW?
Too much homework can cause stress, depression
and even lower grades.
Know the Symptoms
Does your child seem stressed when he sits down to do his homework? Does he does not want to go school anymore or forgets to bring his assignments home? Does he deny getting any assignments?
These may all be symptoms of homework-related anxiety of stress.
Some other symptoms include headaches or stomach aches, tantrums in doing homework, sadness in the child when faced with homework and have trouble falling asleep.
Identify the Issue
Children find homework stressful for a myriad of reasons:
- Perfectionists may suffer from performance anxiety. They might be afraid that they won’t be able to do it right.
- Some find it hard to manage time. A little organization and time management skills may do wonders for them.
- Many children experience anxiety about homework.
- There are children who find it hard to concentrate on the task at hand – either because they feel exhausted after school or because they may be suffering from ADHD or other learning disorders. While allowing them to nap for some time may solve the former problem, the right kind of intervention might be necessary in the latter case.
Family conflicts, the divorce of parents, shifting the home, arrival of a new sibling or baby in the household, and being bullied at school or by neighborhood friends are some of the other reasons why kids might not be able to do their homework.
Empathy and Encouragement
Like all anxiety disorders, homework anxiety too needs to be handled gently – and it all starts with communication. Allow the child to open up to you.
Empathize with him with the words like, “Homework seems challenging, doesn’t it?” and offer him help to find solutions to a given problem. A quiet space and a few additional reference books may help. If necessary, talk to the school teachers or subject experts who can help them with specialized knowledge and skills.
Routine and Consistency
It has been observed that setting aside a specific time and space to do homework help students to concentrate on it better. A study room or a study corner with minimal distractions and a particular number of hours set aside to complete homework and study – helps kids to perform better.
It is even better if the parent or the caretaker of the child can sit with the child and do something productive too. Things that can be done quietly, such as reading a book or paying bills are some of the things that can be done during this period. This helps the child to absorb that the ’homework time’ is not only for him but also a part of the adults’ routines – which in turn can prove to be a good example for him.
Making Mistakes is Okay
It is very important to communicate to the student that the homework assignments are meant to be a part of his learning – and it is acceptable to make mistakes unknowingly. Appreciate their efforts and help them in solving problems if it seems necessary.
Giving hints to a possible solution may also help reduce some of the stress.
If the homework stresses out your kid, maybe its time to be more involved with the child and help him some more.
Homework stress is not only limited to school students. College students get stressed too. 80% of college students said that they sometimes or often felt stressed, 34% felt depressed within the last 90 days, 20% felt stressed ‘most of the time’ while 10% suffered from suicidal thoughts.
The psychologists suggest that studying regularly and consistently, and taking practice tests can help reduce test anxiety. Finding a tutor to explain concepts or double-checking your work may help college students to reduce their academic stress.
Regular exercise, proper eating habits, and adequate sleep are considered must for college students who are living away from homes – and are responsible for taking care of themselves.
Author Bio: Aditya Singhal is the co-founder of Transtutors, a leading Online Education platform for college students. Having graduated from prestigious Indian Institute of Technology (IIT) – Delhi, Aditya has a personal interest in helping students.
Stacie says
Every parent needs to read this, bookmark it, and read it again. Of course, we want our kids to do well in school, but there comes a point when it can actually backfire. We need to watch for signs of burnout in our kids and make sure we’re encouraging them rather than prodding them.
Jeanette E. says
Homework is one of the primary reasons I homeschool. I have such vivid memories of being stuck at the kitchen table doing hours of homework…after I just spent literally all day stuck in a school building. Kids should be playing outside and exploring through their creativity, not filling out so many worksheets! I love the 10m rule! Such great advice.
Cherri Megasko says
The amount of homework kids get at early ages is a subject I get very upset about. I think the 10 minutes per grade level is reasonable. But I’ve heard horror stories about, for instance, second graders having two hours of homework a night. That’s absurd.
Jeanette says
I wish it was like that here. My kiddo will do homework all night and he’s in fourth grade. It breaks my heart because he struggle so hard and he tries so hard. I am hoping that stuff will start to become a little easier for him.
Audrey says
This is a great post! I feel that this should be shared, so that parents with kids still in school can do what they can to help alleviate stress when it comes to homework.
Sarah Bailey says
These sound like some great tips to help kids, I used to get so stressed by certain homework when I was at school. Certainly something I don’t miss.
Destany says
We are so lucky to live in a school district that offers two study halls for students in junior high and high school during the day. Of course, the students can opt out of one study hall by taking band, choir, art, FFA or yearbook. But they try to make sure students who need that study hall get all of the advantages. Such a blessing.
Ashley says
Homework is definitely a stressful time with our oldest. I know the rule and I use to follow it as well when it came to my class but these teachers just pile on the homework all the time. And i know the pressure is coming from the school boards to get those grades to a certain point.
Debra Hawkins says
I kind of hate homework. It just seems to stress my kids out instead of help them in their school work.
sara says
How funny that I read this post after completing the 4th hour of homework with my kids tonight! UGH! This homework is not only stressing the kids out, it is stressing ME out! It is so unnecessary, I really wish we did not have any.
Alison Rost says
When the kids were still studying, I would usually give them an hour after school to just relax their mind and eat. I guess it’s one of the things that helped them get through another hour or two of homework.
Heather says
My kids are so different when it comes to homework. I love these tips. I’m definitely going to implement some of them and see if they work for my girls!
Fi Ni Neachtain says
My eldest son is only beginning primary school in September, but I am already dreading the homework. I think the 10 minutes per grade is a good rule for teachers to follow.
Kathy says
This is such a great post. I have a daughter in 1st grade and a daughter in 3rd grade. The only real homework either of them get, is to read. I guess they’re lucky enough for now not to have homework. I know when they get older they’ll be getting more homework though. Funny thing is, my youngest is sad that she doesn’t get homework. I’m sure that will change when she gets older.
Vanessa Delia says
I don’t have children but I’m familiar with how stressful it can be on them. They sure do get bogged down so easily with the workload!
Chei Pangan says
My daughter will start schooling this coming June. I am glad have read this before school starts. Thanks for sharing this.
HilLesha says
Yes! I agree how stressful this can be…even for the parent. My son practically brings a mountain of homework every night.
Claudia Krusch says
Love all your tips! Homework can be stressful sometimes! I try to tell my son the consequences and leave it up to him to do it!
Wildish Jess says
In the nicest way possible, I think homework stresses me out more than my children. It can be so difficult sometimes.