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Life is full of changes and nothing is permanent, but the one thing that you can always count on is your family. No matter what, they will be there for you at all times. Some people believe that the quality of life you have depends on the quality of your relationships, especially the relationships you have within your immediate family. Spending time with your family is not only important, but it has its own benefits and nurtures your life in a positive way. If you are looking for ways to spend quality time together, then keep reading along. Here are 4 ways to spend more time with your family:
Eat Dinner Together
I am not sure why so many families eat apart. I think most of us are so busy that we have to fit in food where we can – quickly. Although everyday life and working commitments mean that everyone has different time commitments, that does not mean that we shouldn’t eat together. Gathering around the table as much as possible is an important way to bond, in my opinion. I find this to be even more important as children hit the later teen years, as they tend to like their own space at that stage, meaning that the meal table may be your only chance in which to be in the same place at the same time, for more than a few minutes at a time. Make dinner into a ritual in which everyone participates. Create a “no screens” rule and focus on talking to one another. Trust me – this is a great way to spend time together as a family and really helps to create a family that listens and respects one another (at least most of the time). When/if your children are grown up and away from the house, you could create a family dinner once a week, to keep the tradition going!
Try a New Activity Together
Families that play together, stay together. Well, the idea is that children eventually grow up and move out, so that’s not completely realistic – but there is an awful lot to say for the role of a shared activity when it comes to maintaining close family bonds as your family grows up. ‘Going somewhere together or trying a new activity presents endless options. It could be a full day out, or something as simple as a walk along a beach for an hour, skimming stones (something I used to love as a child, plus it’s free). You could visit a museum, go bowling, visit another city, play mini golf, walk through woods, go on a family bike ride, or anything else that appeals. Going somewhere together can really help to improve communication with family members, since you’ll all be sharing the same experience. It allows conversation to arise naturally, since everyone’s focus is on the same thing, without distractions from home. And it doesn’t have to cost a lot, or anything at all. There are options for all budgets.
Work-from-home, if Possible
If you work, try to work-from-home, if possible. A typical commute is about 30 minutes each way. In a major city, it can be longer than that, too. Working from home saves so much time that you could use to spend with your family instead! Most companies are offering full wfh (or part time) wfh options now, which is amazing!
Simplify Your To-do List
Keep in mind: you do not have to do it all! Simplify your to-do list and only do what you absolutely need to do. Laundry? That’s probably a must. Going out to dinner with co-workers each week? Maybe push that aside so that you can make more time for family. Another great way to simplify your to-do list is by hiring out tasks, when possible. Things such as cleaning, yard work, or even furniture moving services in Charlotte can all be hired out. College Dudes Help U Move can help you with the furniture moving, if you need it. Redecorating or need to clean behind large furniture items? Call them up! If you are actually moving, they offer full-service moving services, too, so that is definitely something to consider. Ultimately, simplifying your to-do list and hiring out tasks to make things easier and less stressful for you will help you spend more time with your family.
This post is a guest post written by Alex Berger. Alex is an Atlanta-based lifestyle and travel blogger. Photos provided by Alex Berger.
melissa chapman says
You are so right blood is thicker than water and it is important to foster your relationships with all family members. I try to eat dineer as a family every night but I have to admit it does not always work out.
Amber Myers says
We do try to do a lot of these. Once a week we go out as a family to eat and I am glad I can work from home.
Louisa says
Both indoor and outdoor activities are one of my favorite options
Tasheena says
I really enjoyed reading this post, these are all wonderful tips.
Ivan Jose says
Thank you for these tips, it’s timely because I’m always on the lookout for ways to spend more time with my kids. I found that working from home is great because I can just go to them whenever possible.
Richelle Escat says
Thanks for your reminder and I agree with simplifying our to do list, sometimes it’s just us that makes us busy hehe
Catalina says
Even if I work from home, I don’t spend much time with my family. I think I need to organize some activities together!
Eileen M Loya says
I wish things were that simple with my family. We do work from home, but being on different schedules makes it difficult for us to eat together as a family. We are going to try to work things out soon. I really miss meal times with my family.
Swathi says
Yes these are great things to spend the time with family. Since we are at home we are spending time together now lot than earlier.
Marysa says
It is good to take a break from work and electronics and truly spend some quality time together. These are great ideas!